Just Because You’re Dating An Older Man Doesn’t Really Mean You’re Dating A More Mature One

 

 

To tell you the truth, it had just gotten to the point where I was so sick and tired of dating guys who I felt were just far too immature for me. And so I made it a rule to never date a guy unless he would be way older than me. Because at that time, I really thought that old age automatically translated to more maturity. However, I later grew to find out the hard way that age is but a number – and maturity has got nothing to do with how young or old you are. It really is a mindset that you have to adopt for yourself regardless of your age.

I should have seen the signs early on. I started dating this older guy and things didn’t really get off to a solid start. For one, he was too chicken to ask for my number himself. He had to go through a mutual friend and I should have known then and there that something was wrong. But I shrugged it off. We had met in a random club one night. He was expressing an interest in me and I honestly thought that he was a cool guy despite his relatively advanced age.

And then after a few days had passed, my friend had told me that he had been asking for my number. And again, I didn’t think much of it and I told her that she could go ahead and give it to him. In any case, I had already told myself that I was done with dating men my age; that I was interested in dating older guys. So the moment that the first opportunity to do so presented itself, I just grabbed it. I wasn’t necessarily prowling for a boyfriend at the time. I was just looking to experiment a little bit and so I took a chance on him.

I got the initial warnings. He was probably a player. I mean, he was in his 40s and I’m sure that he had had his experience in the romantic field. And I knew that it should have been a red flag that he was still single at that age but I didn’t want to judge him outright. I wanted to give him a chance. I wanted him to prove my theory that dating older guys would be better than dating younger and immature ones. Besides, I wasn’t really planning on investing myself all too seriously into this relationship. I was just looking to test the waters.

So I wasn’t really scared. I didn’t really consider it to be a big deal at that point. I even went into it thinking that it would be a potential learning experience for me. And I was right. I ended up learning so many things about age and maturity. So he took me out. And when I say that he took me out, he literally just told me that he wanted to go “out” with me. He didn’t really give me any specifics or details. I told him yes and I waited for him to follow up on the details when the day eventually came. And I waited. And I waited. And eventually, I waited more.

But then I never heard from him. So I decided to text him first instead. I told him a few expletives and I told him to never contact me again. He had no right to just ditch me like that. Of course, he was so quick to reply with his excuses and apologies. He was so quick to say that he had to have an emergency dinner with his friend and that he had just lost track of time – and that’s why he couldn’t text me. He asked me to give him a second chance and I was foolish enough to do so.

And then we went out on a real date and somehow, he really seemed to charm me. And for a while, I thought to myself that it was a good idea that I didn’t give up on him so easily; that I had given him a second chance. A few weeks went by and everything went so smoothly. I was so ready to double-down on my beliefs that older guys are definitely more mature than younger ones. Everything was going so great in our relationship and I did all the things that I told myself I never would.

 

I got attached. I got invested. I got really into it and I took things very seriously. And then he left. Just like that. He vanished from my life. He stopped talking to me. Later on, I would learn that he was still seeing his ex behind my back. And it’s from that experience where I learned that old age doesn’t always translate to maturity. You can find immaturity in young or old guys; and that’s just the sad truth of love.

Just Because You’re Dating An Older Man Doesn’t Really Mean You’re Dating A More Mature One
Just Because You’re Dating An Older Man Doesn’t Really Mean You’re Dating A More Mature One

13 Things About An Aquarius That You Should Be Thankful For

 

 

1. They are always honest.

An Aquarius never beats around the bush with you. You will always know where an Aquarius stands in life because they are very honest and blunt people. They don’t like to sugarcoat anything and they always call things as they are. You never have to second-guess how an Aquarius feels about you because if they really didn’t like you, you would know.

2. They are always loyal.

An Aquarius always makes an effort to practice extreme loyalty to the people who are loyal to them. They would never betray real friends. You are always assured that an Aquarius would never stab you in the back. And when worse comes to worst, an Aquarius will be the first one there at your side helping you face your troubles. They will always choose your side no matter what.

3. They love you unconditionally.

It doesn’t matter whatever shortcomings or flaws you may have. When an Aquarius develops a love and affection for you, then that’s bound for life. Nothing you could do could ever betray that love because it is unconditional. But you should also note that it takes a while to gain an Aquarius’s trust and so it’s best that you should never break it. A bond with an Aquarius is a bond for life.

4. They always see the best in people.

No matter how bad or dirty a person you feel on your worst days, an Aquarius will still choose to see the best in you. An Aquarius always maintains idealized perceptions of people. Sometimes, their idealism leads to great disappointment on their part but they keep at it anyway. They expect so much from people but they just keep getting let down. Despite the disappointments, their faith in people has never faltered.

5. They accept you for everything that you are.

Your flaws don’t matter. Your imperfections don’t matter. An Aquarius will never try to change you into a person that you’re not comfortable becoming. An Aquarius understands the limits of your personality and they would never impose their own ideas on you. You can expect an Aquarius to always be patient with you even when you’re constantly screwing up.

6. They are free-spirited in nature.

An Aquarius is adventurous and always craves for new and exciting experiences. You will never feel boxed in whenever you’re with an Aquarius. They are game for new adventures and they are always able to provide you with new perspectives. They help you expand your knowledge of the world and help expose you to different kinds of sensations. Your taste for adventure will always be satisfied when you’re in the company of an Aquarius.

7. They are kind and compassionate.

It’s always a good feeling whenever you’re around a kind and compassionate person. The world is in dire need of more kindness among its people. An Aquarius will always make an effort to make sure that the people around him/her are comfortable and at ease. They never like unhealthy conflict and confrontation. You are assured that an Aquarius will never deliberately hurt you and will always be mindful of your feelings.

8. They are hardworking and resilient.

An Aquarius is ambitious. An Aquarius will have dreams and aspirations like most people. But what sets them apart is their willingness to go after what they want. They espouse tremendous work ethic and a zeal for accomplishment. The best part about their resilience is their infectiousness. They always make the people around them feel like they have to be ambitious as well. They are very goal-oriented and driven human beings.

9. They take an optimistic view about everything.

While everyone knows that the world is filled with constant hardship and turmoil, the Aquarius is a breath of fresh air in everyone’s troubled lives. They always like to look on the bright side of things. The silver lining never escapes them. They always manage to see the good in any situation. An optimistic outlook on life is the reason why they’re always happy.

10. They support people who pursue their passions.

While they themselves are also driven and passionate, they push the people around them to also pursue their dreams. They like to enable other people in the search for their true purposes in life. Whenever you’re in need of some quick motivation, you can always count on your Aquarius friend to be there for you.

11. They always let you know that they value you.

You always know your worth whenever you’re with an Aquarius. You never have to doubt your own capabilities or your own self-worth. Whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed or when you feel like you’re lacking in confidence, the Aquarius can always serve to remedy your situation.

12. They have your back no matter what.

Whenever you fall, you can always rely on an Aquarius to catch you or to help you back up on your feet. You’re never alone in this fight. An Aquarius will always make an effort to make you feel like you’re in this things together and that you never have to face the world on your own.

13. They are the dreamers that this world needs.

The world is incredibly polarizing these days. That’s why the Aquarius fits in so perfectly. They are the dreamers that we need on the other side of the spectrum. They are able to counterbalance the growing cynicism and pessimism in society.

14 Things About An Aquarius That You Should Be Thankful For
14 Things About An Aquarius That You Should Be Thankful For

5 Reasons Why The Libra Is The Most Committed Zodiac Sign

 

 

The Libra. This is the Zodiac sign of those who are born between September 23 and October 22. To a lot of people, Libras are most popularly known as the peacemakers and the humanitarians of the Zodiacs. They are the ones who are always looking to promote peace, balance, and harmony in their relationships. They are very nonconfrontational and they really hate conflict. They get very uncomfortable with conflict and they would rather just keep their feelings to themselves than to cause a fight.

Libras are also inherently very family-oriented. They always make it a point to maintain close family ties and they are very loyal to those with whom they share actual blood. But not to say that they can’t be loyal to their friends either. Libras are also very loyal to the friends who prove themselves to be worthy of their loyalty. These Libra men and women will be some of the most dependable and reliable people you could ever get the opportunity of meeting. They are genuinely caring and they will always have your back whenever they can regardless of whether it’s inconvenient for them or not. Libra people have a generally thoughtful and kind personality. They are always looking to take care of the people they interact with on a daily basis. They also have a tendency to be quite protective of the people who mean the most to them.

However, there are certain downsides to a Libra’s personality though. Their kindness and thoughtfulness can often be misconstrued by other people as weakness. They often open themselves up to abuse and manipulation because of how trusting and kind they are to others. They find it very difficult to say no to people and as a result, they tend to end up agreeing to do things that are bad for the just to make other people happy. They are too thoughtful to the point that they end up neglecting themselves.

But despite the downsides, anyone would still be lucky to be in a relationship with a Libra. In fact, there are substantial arguments that prove that Libras actually make for the best and most committed partners in a relationship. Here are some of those reasons:

1. Libras just have inherently loyal personalities.

You would never have to worry about a Libra being unfaithful to you in a relationship. Libras are inherently loyal and committed. They are practically the human equivalent of a pet dog. When they commit to you, they are really going to commit to you and you alone. They aren’t particularly fond of polygamy or open relationships. They like sticking to just one person and focusing all of their love and attention on a single entity. All of the love and affection that a Libra has to give will be dedicated solely to you and that’s what makes you lucky to be with a Libra.

You should also check  10 ways to make a strong relationship with a Capricorn!

2. Libras thrive off of making the people around them happy.

A Libra is always going to find happiness in making you happy. In fact, a Libra is going to consider your happiness to be their own as well. They will do whatever it takes to make you happy because that’s what they would consider to be their sole purpose in your life. They would never want to subject you to sadness or disappointment and they will always try their best to protect you from any of these negative feelings. Libras will always try their absolute hardest to make sure that a smile is constantly plastered on your face.


3. There are no limits to the depths in which a Libra is willing to love.

When a Libra falls in love they fall in love wholeheartedly. There are no limits to the amount of love that a Libra is going to give you in a relationship. A lot of people will call them foolish for allowing themselves to fall too fast too easily. But to a Libra, that doesn’t matter. When they’re in, they’re really all in and they are never known to hold back when it comes to love. A Libra is never withholding and they are always going to try their best to make sure that you feel loved.

4. Libras are warmhearted romantics.

You know that clich character in a romantic movie who can never seem to do any wrong? The Libra is the closest thing that you are ever going to get to that in real life. They are always acting tactfully and kindly. They are always mindful of how their words and actions can impact you and they are always making sure to say and do the right thing at the right time.

5. Libras are going to do their best to avoid conflict.

While some conflict is going to be necessary in all relationships, you can’t complain about having a partner who avoids conflict as much as possible. It’s a lot better than having a partner who is constantly trying to pick a fight with you about absolutely anything.

5 Reasons Why The Libra Is The Most Committed Zodiac Sign
5 Reasons Why The Libra Is The Most Committed Zodiac Sign

This Is How Dangerous You Are Based On Your Zodiac Sign

 

 

 

1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)

You absolutely have trouble dealing with people who threaten your dominance over a situation. As an Aries, you are obsessed with control and power. And you would have no problems doing whatever it takes to take out any people who serve as threats to your power. You get drunk with power and sometimes, it corrupts you to the point that you do unthinkable things.

 

2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

You are so dangerous because of your short temper. You get pissed off way too easily. As a Taurus, you are a very passionate soul and you are known to get quite intense. This can be both a good and bad thing. Even the simplest thing can be enough to set you off. You are so unreceptive of opposing opinions; you hate it whenever people contradict you and you become very hostile.

3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

Your two-faced nature is what makes you so dangerous as a Gemini. You make it so easy for people to trust you because of your ability to adapt to their personalities. This leaves the people around you very susceptible to your manipulation and abuse.

 

4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

You are dangerous because of your mental instability. As a Cancer, your thoughts tend to be all over the place. You have a tendency to just bite off more than you can chew a lot. And this is because of your ambitious spirit. However, that is also the reason why you can have a very cluttered mind. And all of that clutter can lead to a whole lot of instability.

 

5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You are caught in a constant struggle for the spotlight. You always want fame. You always crave for attention. However, that can lead you to do stupid things in order to get the attention on you. You wouldn’t be afraid of being a danger to yourself and to others so as long as it means that people are focusing on you.

 

6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

You are meticulous in your ways – and that’s why you are very dangerous. If you do commit a crime or if you do something wrong to anyone, you would be so good at hiding your tracks. You leave no stone unturned. People would never accuse you because of how neatly you organize everything. Your attention to detail is what makes you really dangerous.

 

7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)

As a Libra, it’s your charm that makes you so dangerous to be around. You have a way of getting people to trust you and be comfortable with you. This gives you so much power because you end up being able to manipulate other people into doing things that benefit you personally and you get to wash your hands clean after.

 

8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

It’s your sheer jealousy and aggressiveness that makes you such a dangerous individual to be around. As a Scorpio, you don’t typically like to latch yourself onto people. You like to keep to yourself a lot. However, once you do latch on to someone, you have crazy fits of jealousy. You go through some really intense jealous rages and they are never pretty to look at.

 

9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)

You are always so good at escaping whatever situation you’re in – and that’s what makes you so dangerous. You can commit something wrong to someone else; and you would be gone in the blink of a second. You would be so good at fleeing the scene of the crime. You are incredibly skilled at washing your hands clean and passing the problem off to other people.

 

10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

The reason that you are so dangerous is because you have a tendency to be ruthless. As a Capricorn, you are a dreamer and a hard worker. You always go after your dreams with a reckless abandon. However, your ruthlessness can also mean that you have no problems stepping on other people to get to the top. You wouldn’t be guilty about holding other people back if it means that you get to come out ahead.

 

11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

Your intelligence is the reason that you’re such a dangerous being to be around. You see right through people. Nothing can fool you. You understand most people better than they understand themselves. And as a result, you are able to treat people like puppets. Your intelligence makes you a master manipulator as an Aquarius.

 

12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

You let your emotions get the best of you a lot. And for the most part, that can be pretty harmless for other people. You are mostly a danger to yourself when you let your feelings get in the way of you making proper decisions. However, it becomes a problem when you get really angry and you end up wanting to destroy everything in your path.

This Is How Dangerous You Are Based On Your Zodiac Sign
This Is How Dangerous You Are Based On Your Zodiac Sign

This Is How You Are When You Fall In Love According To Your Zodiac Sign

 

 

1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)

You fall in love with every ounce of your being. As an Aries you never do anything halfheartedly – especially the act of falling in love. You don’t hold back. When you fall, you just let yourself fall. You don’t hesitate. You dive straight into it. You fall in love without restraint. If falling in love were like a poker game, then you’re pushing all of your chips into the middle – and there’s no turning back.

 

2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

If you’ve ever been hurt or heartbroken in the past, no one would ever be able to tell with the way that you fall in love these days. When you fall in love, you show no signs of harboring any emotional baggage from the past. You have such a refreshed demeanor with the way that you fall in love; as if you’re a blank slate – and you’re very excited for what’s in store for you.

3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

When you fall in love, you do so very recklessly. As a Gemini, you have a tendency of biting off more than you can chew when you fall in love. You fly way too close to the sun. And sometimes, that can pay off for you; but it can also backfire on you in a grand manner. But you know that love is worth the risk; so you take that chance anyway.

 

4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

There is no shortage of passion and intensity with the way that you fall in love as a Cancer. Typically, you are a very reserved and meek person. You don’t really like to make a ruckus or cause too much noise. But when you fall in love, it’s a whole different story. You love someone with all your heart; with all of the strength that your soul can muster.

5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You fall in love as if the whole world depends on you to do so. You put a lot of pressure on yourself to make sure that your love is valid and true; and that it’s going to be as magical as you’ve been led to believe it to be.

 

6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

Usually, you are so quick to point out the flaws in people and in situations. You are often very critical and it can be very hard to please you. It can be a challenge to make you happy because of how easily disappointed you are. But when you fall in love, everything changes. It’s as if all is good in the world and you have nothing to complain about anymore.

7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)

You wear your heart on your sleeves as a Libra. When you fall in love, you do so honestly and openly. You show all of yourself – scars and blemishes included. You don’t filter anything out. You really put your most genuine self forward and you hope for the best.

 

8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

When you fall in love, you do so with great fear. It’s like it’s your Hail Mary. It’s like it’s the only shot you’re ever going to have at extracting some kind of happiness and meaning in this world.

9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)

You hesitate a little bit every time you fall in love. You aren’t usually one who is known to be domesticated or tamed. You are a wild animal who likes to wander free. As a Sagittarius, your freedom is the most important thing to you. And that’s why the idea of falling in love absolutely terrifies you. But like the Sagittarius that you are, you never let fear get the best of you. You eventually give in to your feelings and you let yourself fall.

 

10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

As a Capricorn, you approach the act of falling in love the same way you approach everything else in life. You give it everything that you’ve got. You let your resilience pull you through. You remain persistent even when the odds are stacked against you. You always keep your eyes on the prize and you keep your priorities in check as much as you can.

11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

Love is something that you are not entirely familiar with. As an Aquarius, you aren’t exactly known to handle your feelings and emotions well. And so it makes sense for love to be something that astounds you. But you also approach love as if it’s the one thing that’s going to give you a sense of completion in life; something that gives meaning to your life.

 

12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

You fall in love with your whole self. You fall in love as if you have so much love within you; as if it’s something that you’re never going to run out of. You don’t do anything to minimize it. You don’t do anything to soften the blow. You fall in love – and it’s almost like an emotional free fall for you. And you don’t care about what you find when you reach the bottom.

This Is How You Are When You Fall In Love According To Your Zodiac Sign
This Is How You Are When You Fall In Love According To Your Zodiac Sign

The Most Intense Energy Shift Of 2018 Is About To Happen – Uranus In Taurus Transit

The Most Intense Energy Shift Of 2018 Is About To Happen – Uranus In Taurus Transit
The Most Intense Energy Shift Of 2018 Is About To Happen – Uranus In Taurus Transit

 

 

 

The Uranus in Taurus transit, in effect for the next 7+ years, will push the hands of fate to release an important wake-up call BULL STYLE.

A new energy is about to charge in and it’s forcing our wheels of fortune to start spinning. Where they stop next will have a lot to do with Uranus’ radical sign shift beginning on May 15, 2018. It’s wake up time and I suggest getting our eyes ready to adjust to seeing things from a new perspective. Some of us will gain in unimaginable ways with extreme highs—while others will plummet into extreme lows.

The game of life is about to intensify in more ways than one.

Many of us will shift the entire course of where we are going as a result of this important planetary move. It’s exciting and scary all at the same time.

Whatever happens next will, of course, be something we never thought of. Uranus is known for delivering the unexpected. He’s wild and likes to keep us guessing up until the very end. When he delivers we’ll be blown away by the results. Uranus is funny like that. He will never – ever,  reveal what he’s up to till it’s too late to change course.

Uranus is the great awakener and soul shaker. He likes to open our eyes really wide to see things in a totally new way.

Before I get into the specifics let me begin my Uranus tale by saying that this planet is a true Wild Card. He’s brilliant, chaotic and catastrophic all at the same time which is quite a bill to fulfill. Uranus demands freedom from the status quo and won’t stop for anyone that gets in his way. His MO is changing or be changed—without the courtesy of being asked.

The irony of the Uranus in Taurus transit is that Taurus hates change. Taurus is a sign that is fixed in her ways and doesn’t want to budge for anyone. I can already see a dilemma building.

What happens when you mix a wildcard (Uranus) with a bull (Taurus)? My answer is a ferocious cocktail– shaken not stirred….that’s what!

Ready or not–something radically different is approaching and what happens here will surely go down in the history books. Uranus is a show stopper. When he wants to shake things up – he does it in very powerful ways. Change or be changed is the bottom line.

SOME THEMES WE CAN EXPECT TO SEE WITH THE URANUS IN TAURUS TRANSIT:

CHANGES WITH CURRENCY & BANKING

Since Taurus rules over money and banks we will likely see major fluctuations in how we are using both of them. We’ve already started to see a shift of usage of cash across the world.

More and more people are opting for electronic transactions. Banks have been closing left and right given that more and more people are banking online.

A ton of attention has been going into the unregulated realm of bitcoins and digital currencies as well … and we will likely see quite a bit more for both better and worse. Certain financial systems may need to be broken down in order to be built back up in a different kind of way.

CHANGES IN WHAT WE’RE SPENDING OUR MONEY ON

Given that Taurus appreciates value, questions surrounding what’s important and what’s not will likely begin to crop up more and more.

Social Security Reform in the USA & Other Long-Term Securities

With an emphasis on our ‘wealth’ and safety nets (Taurean themes), we can expect systems that provide security to go through some sort of change

Continued Wild Weather Patterns

We all know that the Earth has been mad for quite some time. The human race has been using and abusing her for far too long and she’s been voicing up.

Expect to see more wild weather patterns as a result of the Uranus shift through the earthy sign of Taurus. An important wake-up call into what we’re doing to our planet will become apparent.

Farming changes + Food Consumption

Important developments and advancements – particularly with cattle, will likely surface given that Taurus is the sign of the bull.

We could also see higher rates of home gardens for food consumption. More and more people may opt out of eating meat and adopt more meatless diets (which we’ve already started to see).

How We Use Resources

More and more people may delve into a ‘waste not want not’ way of life. Less may be more and quality will supersede quantity.

 

CHART OF URANUS ENTERING TAURUS ON MAY 15TH, 2018:

The moment a planet enters a new sign a scene is set for what happens next. In this instance, I’ve set the stage for Washington DC but we could change it to any country’s capital.

This is an important picture for the developments of what the Uranus transition means for each country. In this case, I want to just focus on a few key points.

Uranus will be changing signs right after the peak of the May New Moon in Taurus signaling that something ‘new’ is coming onto the scene. This something new will likely CHARGE in rather than quietly knock to see if we’re ready.

A New Moon happening right alongside a major planetary shift also heightens the probability of a big* event happening. In addition to the New Moon, Mars will be in the critical 29th degree making a fierce square to Uranus.

Not to be tired but I’m watching for something volatile and potentially explosive around this time. This picture indicates that Uranus won’t tiptoe into his new sign quietly – he’s going to charge in like a wild animal.

*Side note …. Uranus is known for creating big events when he changes signs. The last time he changed signs, one of the world’s worst disasters took place. Upon Uranus’ transition into Aries on March 11, 2011, Japan experienced one of their worst national disasters of all time. They were tragically struck by the world’s 4th largest earthquake, a tsunami AND their nuclear reactors almost exploded.

 

2018-2026 URANUS IN TAURUS TRANSIT DATES:

Uranus Begins his trek through Taurus: May 15th – November 6th, 2018
Uranus Back Tracks into Aries for a Final Run: November 7th – March 5th
Uranus Re-enters Taurus and remains for a while (6 years or so): Taurus March 6th, 2019 – July 7th, 2025
Uranus Begins his trek through Gemini: July 7th-8th – November 7th, 2025
Uranus Back Tracks into Taurus for a Final Run: November 8th, 2025 – April 26th, 2026

 

PREVIOUS URANUS IN TAURUS TRANSIT CYCLES:

June 6th, 1934 – May 15th, 1942
July 8th, 1850 – March 14th, 1859
May 3rd, 1767 – April 8th, 1775

The truth of the matter is that things have already been happening to set the stage for what comes next. Whatever ultimately comes out of the Uranus in Taurus transit was actually set into motion a long time ago.

But there is no denying that BIG change is a-coming’. By the end of it, we’ll all likely feel a little like Dorothy when she landed in Oz.

 

PERSONAL EFFECTS:

If you’re interested in how this Uranus in Taurus transit will be affecting you over the course of the next 7-8 years check out my Member Horoscopes.

Everyone, in some shape or form, will experience a change in some area of their life as a result of this monumental shift. It’s a shift that most of us will only experience once in a lifetime.

As a result, we’ll all walk away with important memories resulting out of it. Use it to your advantage and discover more about the personal themes about to be shaken up in your life. A totally new way of looking at things is about to come out of it.

10 Reasons Why You Should Fall In Love With The Girl Who Is “Forever Alone”

 

 

 

The term “forever alone” gets thrown around so loosely these days because of internet memes and posts. However, there are some people who are out of relationships for prolonged periods of time; or some girls who just can’t seem to find themselves a decent man to be with; and they are often labeled as people who are “forever alone”. That shouldn’t be the case. Just because some people have difficulty finding love doesn’t mean that they are destined for a life of loneliness and isolation.

 

Just because they have had such bad luck in their dating lives doesn’t mean that they are going to have to get used to living a life of solitude.In fact some of these women who are “forever alone” are actually really great catches; it’s just that most men aren’t smart enough to realize so. If men were perceptive enough, they wouldn’t waste much time trying to get with the girl who is “forever alone” for a multitude of reasons. She has what it takes to make a man’s love worthwhile. She is a great girl who is worthy of any great guy’s attention.

1. She is going to have a life of her own that she is proud of.

She has been single for so long and she has been really focused on building a life for herself – a life that she can be proud of. And it’s always great to have a girl who is self-accomplished and proud of the life that she has built for herself.

 

2. She understands what her body really wants.

She has been single for so long that she has always been resorting to self-pleasure to satisfy her sexual needs. And that means that she knows her body really well. So she’s going to be able to teach you a few things in the bedroom to make your sex lives more exciting.

3. She is very independent and she can do things without you.

She has been single for so long that she virtually knows how to get everything done on her own. She isn’t going to be overly dependent or reliant on you. She isn’t going to turn to you to solve all of her problems for her. She’s the kind of girl who can really take care of herself.

 

4. She isn’t going to pressure you into rushing into anything.

She has been patient for so long; and she is going to be patient in the relationship as well. She knows that there is value in being able to wait; and that the best things in life are always worth waiting for

5. She won’t need you to be constantly validating her.

She has been her own source for validation her whole life. She won’t be needy. She won’t be clingy. She won’t be asking you to tell her how pretty or accomplished she is. She already knows that because of all the time she has spent with herself.

 

6. She is going to work hard for your relationship.

She knows that what she has is rare because she hasn’t had much experience with it in the past. You can bet that she’s always going to work hard for the love that you share as a couple. She is never going to take you for granted because she knows the loneliness that will come if she ever loses you.

7. She is always going to show genuine appreciation for you.

She is never going to make it seem like she’s becoming complacent in the relationship. She is always going to make sure that you feel her gratitude towards you. She is always going to make you feel like you’re an important aspect of her life. She is never going to belittle whatever efforts you put into the relationship as a whole.

 

8. She won’t have any severe emotional baggage.

She hasn’t had many real relationships in the past – if any at all. And so it’s highly likely that she isn’t harboring any extreme emotional baggage from previous toxic relationships. It’s like getting a blank slate when you get into a relationship with her.

9. She is going to put you in your place.

She has been alone for so long, and she has been waiting for a guy like you for the longest time. During that time, she has figured out what she is really looking for in a man. And she’s not going to settle for you being anything less than she expects you to be. She is always going to push and motivate you to be the best version of yourself.

 

10. She is going to love you wholeheartedly.

There has been so much love that has been pent up inside her for the longest time. And when she finally has you as an outlet for that love, you can bet that there’s going to be an outpouring of it. You will never be left to feel like she doesn’t love you – because she’s going to do everything in her power to make you feel her love.

10 Reasons Why You Should Fall In Love With The Girl Who Is “Forever Alone”
10 Reasons Why You Should Fall In Love With The Girl Who Is “Forever Alone”

10 Phrases You Say That Drive Your Boyfriend Farther Away From You

 

 

He’ll give up if you make him.

 

Communication is key. It’s practically like listening to a broken record with how many times you’ve heard this phrase. But it’s true. It’s a reminder that you constantly need to be taking to heart as far as your relationship is concerned. You have to understand that words are powerful; they can either bring two people closer together or drive two people apart. And how you use your words in your relationship is really going to have an effect on whether you are both going to be able to make it last with one another or not.

 

Granted, not all of us are going to be skilled conversationalists. And that’s okay. We don’t have to be really good conversationalists to be good communicators. Healthy communication is mostly about honesty and openness. It’s about being humble enough to allow yourself to be vulnerable in front of your partner. It’s when you just let yourself out in the form of words. However, you can’t be reckless either. You have a responsibility over the things that you let out of your mouth.

You can’t just be saying anything while expecting yourself to be absolved of all accountability to your words. Your words have meaning and they have impact. And sometimes, you could be saying things in your relationship that could be driving your partner farther away from you.

1. “I wish you could be more like ______.”

This is never a good thing to say to the man you love. You should never be pressuring him into being someone he’s not. You shouldn’t be comparing him to other men. You should only be pushing and motivating him to be the best possible version of himself

 

2. “You always/never do this to me!”

Be very careful with extreme language. It can be very easy to fall into the trap of lazy communication. You don’t want to always be limiting yourself to superlatives when you’re talking to him. Just because he does something wrong once doesn’t mean that he ALWAYS does it to you. Don’t be so damning when you speak to him.

 

2. “Why can’t you just know what I want without me saying it?”

He’s not a mind-reader. This is a completely unreasonable question to be asking him. You shouldn’t be expecting him to anticipate your needs at every turn especially if you’re not making an effort to communicate them well to him. If you feel like your needs aren’t being addressed, bring it up with him in a mature and honest fashion.

3. “Get away from me!”

No matter how upset you might be a him, it’s never right to tell your man to get away from you. You don’t want to end up regretting those words if he actually follows suit and leaves you. If you feel like you need to take a breather from him for a while; ask him to give you some time to yourself in a calm and nice manner. Don’t tell him to just bugger off. That’s going to greatly hurt his feelings.

 

4. “Stop crying like a baby.”

Men should be allowed to cry. If he’s exposing his insecurities and vulnerabilities to you, you shouldn’t be making him feel bad about it. You should be supporting him and empathizing with him. He’s baring his soul – and that’s typically not an easy task for a lot of men. Be more caring and sensitive to his feelings.

 

5. “I need a break from you.”

Be very careful when using these words. The word “break” in particular can be troublesome in a relationship. So if you feel like you need to have some space for the meantime, just ask for it. He should be able to respect the fact that you occasionally want your privacy.

 

6. “You are so annoying.”

Don’t make it seem like it’s bothersome for you to have him around. If he does things that bug you, then bring them up with him in a calm and civil manner. Don’t just outright tell him that you think he’s annoying – that’s going to turn him off to the idea of spending time with you.

 

7. “If you were really in love with me, you would…”

This is an ultimatum and there should be no place for this kind of talk in a relationship. It’s manipulative and it’s cruel. You shouldn’t be testing how much he loves you by resorting to these kinds of cheap tactics.

 

8. “I don’t understand why I’m even with you.”

Never make him feel like you’ve lost your sense of purpose in the relationship. Once he feels that, he might be losing his sense of purpose as well. And before you know it, he’s going to be long gone.

 

9. “I don’t need you in my life.”

Men always like to feel needed. And even though it might be true that you’re perfectly capable of taking care of yourself, never let him know it. Always make him feel validated and valued in your life.

10 Phrases You Say That Drive Your Boyfriend Farther Away From You
10 Phrases You Say That Drive Your Boyfriend Farther Away From You

The Kind Of Girl You Are Most Attracted To Based On Your Zodiac Sign

 

 

 

1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)

As an Aries, you tend to be attracted to girls who have fiery and intense personalities. You have a very energetic personality yourself and you are mostly attracted to those who are able to keep up with your energy. You live life at a pace that not most people would be comfortable with. You like girls who are always up for anything; who are always game for an adventure.

 

2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

You really want a patient and understanding kind of girl. You know that you can be such a struggle to deal with at times. You are passionate – which is a good thing – but sometimes, you can let your stubbornness get on other peoples’ nerves. You want the kind of girl who can tolerate your occasional episodes; someone who will stay loyal to you no matter what.

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3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

You are so adaptable and flexible as a Gemini. You have a way of altering your personality depending on who you’re with. But it gets tiring sometimes having to pretend to be someone you’re not. That’s why your ideal kind of girl is someone who accepts you for who you really are.

 

4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

As a Cancer man, you are the rose among the thorns in the sense that you have a very caring and soft heart. Men typically like to project toughness and ruggedness. But you’re the opposite. You always like to shower your love and affection people. And you are most attracted to the kind of girl who is the same way. You want someone who is capable of really taking care of you.

5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)

Of course, as a Leo, you want everything to be about yourself. And that’s why your ideal kind of girl is someone who would be able to feed your ego. You want to be with a woman who makes you feel even better about yourself. You want a girl with whom you can be proud to wear around your arm.

 

6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

As a male Virgo, your standards are unreasonably high when it comes to relationships and potential mates. That’s why your ideal kind of girl is someone who is up for the challenge. You want a woman who has great attention to detail; someone who understands that relationships require effort and commitment. She needs to be someone who can take your love seriously.

7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)

As a Libra, you just want a girl who exudes beauty both inside and out. You want the kind of girl who is the totapackage. She must have good looks and she also has to have a very charming and disarming personality.

 

8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

Freaky as you are, you want someone who can be just as freaky. As a Scorpio, you are oozing with sex appeal. And there is no denying your sex drive. That’s why you want a girl who is going to be just as effervescent and capricious as you are. You want someone who is game to try some stuff in the bedroom that not many others would. s

9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)

Obviously, your ideal kind of woman is someone who won’t make you feel shackled or bolted down despite the fact that you’re in a relationship. As a Sagittarius man, you crave your freedom. And you want a woman who is able to encourage you to pursue your freedom. And it’s always a plus if she’s a girl who is willing to go on adventures with you.

 

10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

As a Capricorn guy, you are known to be quite hardworking and ambitious. However, that often means that you don’t get to spend too much time on your love life or relationships in general. That’s why your ideal kind of girl is someone who is independent. You want a low-maintenance woman who doesn’t cling to you; someone who doesn’t ask too much of your time or attention.

11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

The kind of girl that attracts you the most as an Aquarius is the girl who can keep up with your intellect. It’s no secret that you’re probably the smartest out of all the Zodiac signs. That’s why a lot of people find you weird and eccentric. Your mind is way beyond the regular person’s comprehension. You get bored easily and that’s why you want a girl who can stimulate you intellectually.

 

12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

You are inherently sensitive as a Pisces man. You have a tendency to feel things very deeply. You are a lot more sensitive than most other boys. And that’s why you need a girl who is just as sensitive and empathetic as you are. You need the kind of girl who immediately understands your emotional needs – and she does whatever she can to try to meet them.

The Kind Of Girl You Are Most Attracted To Based On Your Zodiac Sign
The Kind Of Girl You Are Most Attracted To Based On Your Zodiac Sign

This Is The Best Way To Seduce A Guy Depending On His Zodiac Sign

 

 

1. Aries (March 21 – April 19)

It’s all about being able to portray a sense of ambitiousness. You have to show the Aries guy that you aren’t content with just living a quiet and mediocre life. Show him that you have the vitality within you that it takes to take life by the horns.

 

2. Taurus (April 20 – May 21)

The quickest way to seduce a Taurus man is by showing him loyalty. There is nothing in the world that a Taurus guy wants more than commitment and loyalty. Show him that you always have his back; and rest assured, he’s always going to have yours.

3. Gemini (May 22 – June 21)

You can seduce a Gemini man by showing him that you can be just as adaptable as he is. One night, he might want to go out and drink until he’s wasted. And the next night, he might just want a quiet day at home with a good book. You have to show him that you are capable of adapting to whatever circumstances.

 

4. Cancer (June 22 – July 22)

The best way to seduce a Cancer man is to just take care of him. You have to show him that you have the love and kindness in your heart to be responsible for another human being’s welfare. You have to show him your motherly instincts; and he’s going to definitely develop a great attraction towards you. You just have to prove to him that you can take care of him.

5. Leo (July 23 – August 22)

You’re going to have to strike a balance with a Leo and it’s not exactly going to be easy. He gets easily threatened when people around him could potentially steal the spotlight from him. But he also doesn’t like to pay attention to people who he feels are beneath him. So you are going to have to seduce him by showing him that you can go toe to toe with him; but at the same time, you can’t threaten his manhood either.

 

6. Virgo (August 23 – September 22)

To tell you the truth, the Virgo man is probably going to be one of the most difficult men to seduce out of all the Zodiac signs. He is a very dedicated and committed guy; and sometimes, his commitment can lead him to be overworked. You just have to be able to relax him and calm him during his most strenuous moments. If he finds

relief in you, he’s going to be infatuated by you.

7. Libra (September 23 – October 22)

It’s really a matter of just showing your Libra guy a good time. You have to remember that he is a social butterfly. He is a social creature. He always wants to be surrounded by beautiful people who can show him a fun and happy time. He wants people who bring positive vibes into his life. So show him that you’re capable of partying with him and keeping up with his positive energy.

8. Scorpio (October 23 – November 22)

If you’re going to seduce a Scorpio man, you’re just going to have to be playful with him. You’re going to have to show him your sexy side. You have to show him that you aren’t being coy with him and that you’re really willing to try to be sensual with him.

9. Sagittarius (November 23 – December 21)

It’s all about tapping into a Sagittarius man’s sense of humor if you want to get him to like you. The quickest way to seduce a Sagittarius guy is by making him laugh. So be as witty and as humorous as possible. Don’t take life so seriously. Convey a positive attitude all the time – especially when you’re together. Show him that you’re always up for having a good time.

 

10. Capricorn (December 22 – January 20)

A Capricorn man is an absolute workhorse. He works tirelessly for his dreams day in and day out. He doesn’t give himself much time for rest and it’s slowly killing him. You can seduce him by showing him that there is more to life than just work. Show him that he’s still allowed to have fun every once in a while and he’ll love you for it.

11. Aquarius (January 21 – February 18)

The quickest way to seduce an Aquarius guy is by letting him know that you’re not so empty in the head. Prove to him that you are able to keep up with him when he starts babbling about complex and difficult topics. Show him that you are a person who is capable of great depth as well. You’ll grab his attention by showing him that you’re not just some random airhead.

 

12. Pisces (February 19 – March 20)

The key to seducing the Pisces man is simple. You just have to make him feel safe to express his emotions and his feelings. You just have to give him the space that he needs to be himself. If you are able to make him feel safe and secure in being in a relationship with you, then you will have him hooked. You can best seduce him by giving him a lot of care and attention.

This Is The Best Way To Seduce A Guy Depending On His Zodiac Sign
This Is The Best Way To Seduce A Guy Depending On His Zodiac Sign
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